Wow!
So i read this comment from a blog and thought how true it is and it made me realise i should be looking at life differently.

'What you think every day creates the world around you literally smallest example of this is your friends if you have trust issues you will have friends that break your trust if you share a lot of love and think a lot about love and happiness you will surrond yourself with those people without even relising it.
The energy force knows no difference between a negative thought and a positive thought hence why when you say i DONT want to forget this or i DONT want someone to cheat on me when you think it over and over you create that energy you picture exactly what you dont want and you see it happening.
This is why its suggested that you say i WANT to remember this or i DESERVE someone who will treat me right.
I think its a good way to look at it like when your having a shit day anything that can go wrong with and thats no body elses fault but your own but humans tend to believe life runs differently for each individual and the normal life behave should stop just for them so there life is easier'

That wasn't the whole thing but that was the part that made me think, i need to change!